How it feels: I’m a dad, not a visitor

The world’s attitude to dads is outdated. Many fathers want to take a hands-on role in raising their babies, and research shows this is beneficial to both father and baby (and, indeed, mother). But we live in a society where fathers are sidelined and considered the ‘clueless’ half of the parenting partnership. From being forced … More How it feels: I’m a dad, not a visitor

How it feels: I’m a dad, not a visitor!

The world’s attitude to dads is outdated. Many fathers want to take a hands-on role in raising their babies, and research shows this is beneficial to both father and baby (and, indeed, mother). But we live in a society where fathers are sidelined and considered the ‘clueless’ half of the parenting partnership. From being forced … More How it feels: I’m a dad, not a visitor!

To the partner of a new, breastfeeding mama.

One of the reasons frequently cited by women for considering giving up breastfeeding is, “It means my partner can share the feeds.” Sometimes, this is a mutual decision but, often, the pressure comes from the baby’s father… It’s understandable, given the portrayal of babies in films and on television. Rarely are women seen breastfeeding unless … More To the partner of a new, breastfeeding mama.