33.5years Before Child. Or, at least, the few years before I became pregnant… Work, moaning about work (see previous post about perfectionism), numerous daily cups of tea, driving whilst listening to Radio 2, wine, Prosecco or gin (all three if it was a weekend), dining out at least once a week, the cinema, reading a decent … More Motherhood/Martyrdom: A dangerous synonymy.
In my head, this post title was followed by no words at all. In reality, it actually just looked like the post hadn’t uploaded, so here we are. So, why the blank space/no words? Because, quite simply, the pursuit of perfectionism, as a mother, is an unachievable goal. In chasing it, you are setting yourself … More Being The Perfect Mother.
I’m looking at you, Facebook. You too, Twitter. And *especially* you, Instagram. An old school friend messaged me back in May 2016. It was lovely to hear from her, but something she said resonated, and not in a positive way. ‘Hi Jo’, it read. ‘You seem to have this baby thing under control…’ (And then … More The Social Media Effect.
No, seriously, WHAT NOW? Think about it… You want to drive a car? You take umpteen lessons and a test to prove your competence. Fancy flying a plane? Wave goodbye to 1500 flying hours and £100K. Desperate to be a doctor? 10 years of training, thank you very much. Resilience, dedication and thorough preparation, all … More So I gave birth, what now?